Does showing nationalism is intolerance?

Priyanka Chopra and the network ABC have apologised for an episode in her American TV series Quantico which has sparked a major backlash online, just few days ago with angry fans slamming the actor.

Due to a episode, where Priyanka Chopra, who plays Alex Parrish, is an anti-terrorist officer who introspect plots a nuclear attack in Manhattan by Indians to frame Pakistan for it, just days before an Indo-Pak summit is to be held. The episode has drawn intense criticism from Indian fans.

And as always, here India get divided into two different parts one where the people are few sensitive to nation and nationalism get upset from Priyanka and second supporters with the tag line of ‘freedom of expression’ and freedom for artists’

I’m first one who was a fan of Pc and her boldness, and intelligence but now that turned into dumbness. I’m too upset with her and we all should be it’s quite fair,

Why?

Like this suppose there is a family of six member and they all have their different perspective and mind-set they argue, sometimes disagree from each other and also get angry.

But still they live together in a home, because they are bind with a same blood line that is their strength.

Whenever someone attacked ‘any of them from outside or either any of them face a challenge, the whole of family get together and fight against that and they win.

But one day a member of family went outside due to work and after some time he get full coloured in that place’s or culture.

He thought he has become more modern and developed, he began to talk like those people and after sometime thinks like them too. And once when outsiders who all don’t know so much about the name, dignity and history of his family make a disgust rumour and defame his family. Mock his family at the confront of him what he did?

He also laughs with them, and take part with them while hurting his family.

Because he was doing work with those people and at that place. And he made excuse that he couldn’t know what they are doing and what he was doing?

Would you agree?

I don’t.

Now tell me? What will his family do and react? Beyond their expectations,

wouldn’t they hurt or show their sentiments through anger?

A renowned family when get defame outside by his own member how it feels?

Have you experienced?

No! But we’ve experienced many times nation is also like a family and we Indians are more sensitive, emotional and have sentiments than any other nation.

We’ve lost so much and today there is only thing that can make us bind together is ‘nationalism but our misfortune is when here Hindus or who all talk about nation or against these so called modern people get tagged as ‘devotee of our PM Narendra Modi’ or contractor of nation, intolerant and sometimes so far as Hindu terrorist.

We always get criticised, that’s fine. But it hurts when we oftentimes get defamed by our own people that’s also for a lie and wrong reason. We hear words from intellectuals and artists as India is a danger place, most intolerant nation. The biggest population ‘Hindus are terrorists and minority’s like Muslims, OBC and SC are in worst condition and in fear.

Then it hurts, now you think there is no Hindu nation in world, India is only nation with majority of Hindu population that also a democratic nation where people of all religion live. In fact Hindu upper cast get separated or displaced due to Muslims in our own nation. In Hindu majority nation we couldn’t able to make a temple of our lord because of Muslims and democratic way. What else you can expect?

I’ve heard a dialogue that Muslims often deliver ‘We are Muslims and we aren’t terrorist’ right?

Now here we Indians have to each time say and prove that India is best country and most safest county for all religion and world. Muslims, Christians are our friends they are living in very good condition than any other nation. And Hindus aren’t terrorist.

Even when Muslims invaded upon us, destructed our culture, history, temples, and knowledge spite of we are living today with them in this peaceful way how much more tolerance you people expect from us?

Go and live few days in UAE, Afghanistan, Iran, Iraq, Palestine, Mayanmar and any other nation. Then you will understand the value of India.

I’ve read that president of Iraq said, When they make Mosul free from ISIS and almost all Iraq,

“If today we are free from this most evil and dark night of terrorism so due to one thing that is the ‘nationalism where all people comes together and fight for their nation.

Nationalism is a feeling of pride, respect and love for their nation. And this bind all of people together in a single frame. This become nation strength at global level.

Then what’s wrong in nationalism?

People oftentimes criticise nationalism as form of oppression and differentiation but tell me any single thing of 21st century and dark age isn’t polluted?

We all are here living as in lower form of humanity we can’t expect things are very saintly and godly.

So at Priyanka my point is when these people say or do anything against India so they should have freedom of expression and freedom of speech, they are intellectuals.

But when we say something for defending out nation and against those people so we become intolerant, bullies and illiterate foolish. People began to die then they need protection from government. Why we can’t have freedom of speech?

This isn’t intolerance?

So today there are many intellectuals have been come together to defend a right of artist and freedom of expression,

Look at here;

Devesh Baheti, wrote, for defending Priyanka “It’s sad that an artist has to apologise for being an artist.”

Being an artist does not mean you have to drop down your identity of a nation. Art is very powerful medium to show reality to the world but if artists will use this for expending lie then sorry we’ll not support.

Second,

Director, actor

Pooja Bhatt @PoojaB1972

Today tweeted,

When Priyanka Chopra makes a mark for herself Internationally we claim her achievements as our own & then threaten to ban her films & make her apologise for a work of fiction that has been created by someone else. Can we please attempt to be larger than that?

“When Priyanka Chopra makes a mark for herself Internationally then she isn’t a naive who couldn’t understand while doing what she was doing in show? She is firstly an Indian why she just couldn’t take a back off or raise her voice against plot?

“We can and often we do attempt to be larger than this all. But why people like her who are now growing largely in India can’t do attempt be larger than pity, disgust and being naive? Why they just don’t read great history of our nation more old then 5,000 years or any other nation of world.

Then they’ll understand why we Hindus and Indians are reacting like this and why we are so conscious for the image of our nation on global level.

@NidhiSuryavanshi

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Today I saw myself in mirror after many of years…

Taare zameen pr…

“Stars on Earth, yeh those beautiful, bright, and twinkling stars in while hanging on sky we see every night.”

Those stars also lives upon earth. Today I realise after seeing this movie, you can too…Only we need a unique & beautiful sight to see beauty it’s present all around us, and within us.

A wonderful and most amazing movie I’ve ever seen.

Today I watched first time this movie means after eleven years of its releasing. It has been released in 2007 when I was eleven year old and was in 8th standard. Then I wasn’t know about movies so if I’d watched even could not understand.

“But today like I’m seeing myself in mirror after many of years…

Darshil has done amazing acting in that small age and Aamir is phenomenal. First time I love amir this much, as firstly liked his three idiots. Today I just fall for him and his acting.

All music is just so enchanting and exceptional. Love all songs and lyrics.

Now here why this movie touch my heart so hardly and make a place in the depth.

Like Ishaan and Nikumbh both were part of a single character that I’ve been played in my life.

Ishaan was my childhood who’d face so much difficulties especially in study and going school.

I never wanted to go school till the 4th standard almost I’ve been study at home. My family and mom were supportive they didn’t force me so much so I get learned reading, writing and all at home while playing. So fortunately I couldn’t know the name of disease and tag.

Because I wasn’t in any of very renowned school or boarding school thankfully.

Reading, writing all I’ve learned from my mom at home.

We’re middle-class family so of course schooling also have been middle class. Those schools were also good but they just don’t have burden of fame and dignity.

And today i really feel good that I’ve been studied there. Where we learn about life also not only multiple subjects.

But even going school wasn’t easy for me, I have made many of excuses as most common stomachache, fever, headache and so all. Wrote so many applications. Once I’d made warm my forehead from gas so I could tell mom that I’ve fever and I won’t go school tomorrow.

But my mom was so understanding and supportive she always lived with me. I never went anywhere alone till the high school.

I’ve given my board exams with mom, I used to give exam in side and mom waited outside for me. She convinced me to being smart as others and independent but somewhere she knows i am different. She said that with time I’ll be enough strong to handle everything by my own.

She has given me complete time and space to learn and grow. Sometimes she get worried as what I’ll do for living, what happen by writing and so much.

I had problem with understanding, I was slow, I had so much confusion. I couldn’t understand the whole concept of going school, reading so many subject. Why? Because I didn’t know anything about aim, human-race and those all things. I was a average student who was trying to be a bright one as others.

But I couldn’t, I have failed many times in tests, exams so I have also make my elder sister to teachers for taking tests copies. And have hide or sometime throw also my tests copies.

I was full of confusion, unknowing, chaos. I was frightened, dumb and silent. I always see dream of being lost and get afraid in nights because I’ve been lost in my all life.

I have been crying so much over my things. I always thought why I couldn’t be normal like others? Why I’m so weak?

Why I can not understand things easily?

Actually I used to understand but things Beyond normal, beyond worldly. Like about pre-birth, after life, universe, God, soul, life, humans, and all.

But not like school, study, college, exam, competition, rules, limits and all.

I always been in my different world full of questions and thinking for this world and peoples what they do. I wanted to fly, through my imagination, my dreams.

That I had done while living home.

I wanted to live at home so I could live freely and do whatever I wanted to do.

I wanted a free pace, a freedom. I hate to bind under boundaries. But somehow I manage those all,

Now I’ve overcome from those all and have find my destination. And understand everything, all about life in fact more well than others. Today I realise that being this is truly a bliss not punish.

Today I love myself and feel proud what all I’ve been through and reach here. As a poet, writer who motivates others.

So today if I see a child as reflection of mine then I get attached or worried about them.

I think there is always a girl or boy like him in hundreds of normal children. Our society will have to be few sensitive towards them, family and teachers also pay some attention. Because these are the child who actual make or create a new world in future.

As examples were given by Aamir in movie.

But actual what happens in reality there isn’t any teacher like Nikumbh in our society. We only face those teacher who understand only two categories normal and abnormal nothing between line…

We do struggle and fight all with our own from the world full of normality.

Our misfortune is we called extraordinary as abnormal. Whom needs inspiration, appreciation they get only anger, hate and sometimes sympathy.

These child needs more cure, love and inspiration from family and their home.

Give them few time to understand, to learn at beginning and they’ll be their best version or sometimes world’s.

Give them wings of faith, teach them power of believe and let them fly all their own.

Legacy that he left his behind ‘Anthony Bourdain world traveler

Anthony Bourdain, the gifted chef, storyteller and writer who took TV viewers around the world to explore culture, cuisine and the human condition for nearly two decades, has died. He was 61. Bourdain’s death on Friday and the cause of death was suicide.

I am and as everyone are shocked how a kind of beyond the person who described himself as an “enthusiast.

also could suicide and now what we can expect from average and normal people.

The suicide rate in the United States has seen sharp increases in recent years.

I can not believe that he can do suicide

But even if he is then it make us overthink of the causes of suicides and prevention of it.

He’s irreverent, honest, curious, never condescending, never obsequious,” the judges said. “People open up to him and, in doing so, often reveal more about their hometowns or homelands than a traditional reporter could hope to document.”

Anthony Bourdain says,

“We ask very simple questions: What makes you happy? What do you eat? What do you like to cook? And everywhere in the world we go and ask these very simple questions,” he said, “we tend to get some really astonishing answers.”

Here’s a look at some of the other wisdom he shared over the years.

“[When I die] I will decidedly not be regretting missed opportunities for a good time. My regrets will be more along the lines of a sad list of people hurt, people let down, assets wasted and advantages squandered.”

Money doesn’t particularly excite or thrill me; the making of money gives me no particular satisfaction. To me, money is freedom from insecurity, freedom to move, time if you choose to make use of time. My investments advisor understands that I’m not looking to score big on the stock market or bonds. I have zero understanding of it and zero interest. Life is too short.”

Without experimentation, a willingness to ask questions and try new things, we shall surely become static, repetitive, and moribund

Anthony Bourdain was a world traveler and here his philosophy about travel ‘it leaves marks on you- are beautiful often, sometimes they hurt.

The finest and wisest human-being who knows he just began swimming and touched the surface of sea, yet he hast to drown and reach into the depth.

When people eat together that become a most pacify moment, taste of food has capability to change the psychology.

“If all the leaders of world share a meal together then they could create most peaceful environment on the earth.”

@NidhiSuryavansi

World Environment Day

500 times more pieces of microplastic in the sea than there are stars in our galaxy.

Reports says that each year 1 lacks of aquatic animals get die due to plastic pollution.

2.36 lakh barrel plastic wastage are available in seas. And most interesting thing is that plastic and polythene today destroying the earth and environment is an accidentally and un-intentionally experiment by two British scientists.

That is became biggest threat to nature and environment.

A clean & green environment is our collective responsibility towards our planet.

Now nations are taking initiative to ban plastic and polythene but when India will awake?

Government should strictly and initiate banned all factories and free circulation of polythene from markets. Now secondary duty comes of public we will also make efforts for stopping the evil.

Poetry “You must serve as a captain of sorts

Today we’re living in a very troubled world.

One’s death open the entrance of others birth,

But could these uncountable series of death and birth make any of worth;

Negativity pervades it,

And many in our society are floating like ships without rudders,

Weary souls searching for a lighthouse that will keep them from crashing against the rocky shores.

Peoples are entangled within their own waves, lost even at sea-coast…

So here you must serve as a captain of sorts,

And will be a beacon of light, one in millions

A flying kite in a space at the so high,

You’ll have to be a bona-fide!

@NidhiSuryavansi

A short piece of my life- love, live, poetry

Many of people say to me why I don’t believe in love,

And if I don’t believe in love so why I write poetries on that,

And how can I write so deep poetry on love, broken up and complete heart things without being in love?

Once someone read my poetry here on my blog and texted me what’s your story I am so curious to know, have you been in love so serious and hard breakup?

I said no not at all, I don’t believe in these things soft neither hard nothing.

I just write, what comes in my mind and what I’ve seen and observe through outside of the world.

He said ok!

After that I again write a poetry on what he had said to me, yes! I’ve been in love and break up but it’s not a truly damn gossip stuff. I saved those more than deep words for my poetries.

I’m a writer and more than that a poet and only poets can understand the sensitivity and softness of our heart and pain.

We don’t say any things out, we save them for words put on paper and use our tears as blood-ink to write,

Until we don’t have that ink or those realistic and hard words we can’t be true poet.

Once a screen-play writer and director said to me life of poets been very difficult since ever, his father was poet and he has seen so much pain, poverty, grief and difficulties in life.

And he was also a poet but now he’s a frustrating, and disappointed writer and artist,

I asked why?

Because he left his true and natural love of poetry for earning money and became a screen-play writer he sold his soul, heart, his love and pain that’s why he is disappointed from his life and his self.

I said but no I’m a poet and very optimistic, positive and a believer of god. I only try to see positive in every things and aspects.

May be I will have to face difficulties in my future due to my love, passion and something so I’ll.

You know why?

Because what I think is that I think very differently

“better to being happy, satisfy, hopeful, poet with less of money than being a rich, arrogant, frustrated, and lost person or writer, or anything with lot of shit money.

Means really how can anyone make their ambition or dream or whatever to earn more and more money the most insane person.

Money can never give you a shit piece of happiness neither love, satisfaction. That can’t give you the most important damn things to live by or you’re giving just the yours whole most precious and valuable life to that bull shit.

For me being a poet is the bliss that none can think or invent like a technology or machine by his conscious mind that’s only ten percent of your all mind instead it’s divinity that flows out of your ninety percent of sub-conscious mind.

Being a poet and writer is a outcome of so much feeling of pain, insanity, feeling of lost, weird and so much to explain in words that I’ve been living in last almost twenty years.

Yes from childhood I was so different than my sibling, then all. I was so shy, silent introvert who only wants to live at home, who doesn’t want to talk neither with her family members. Who doesn’t want to go school or hang up with so many as others did.

I was always thinking before going school in morning after waking-up, I think the all damn shit concept of school, study and this hell world.

I didn’t understand anything what I’m studying and why or I never asked my foolish questions to anyone because those are important for me but foolish for others. Because of my silent attitude often people understand me as a studious girl or very intelligent, sensible mature blah-blah.

Even when I was so dumb, so slow so insane, and being studious was a damn responsibility on a shoulder of little innocent girl. I thought that being studious is kind of fantasy or adventure so I pretend to be but get failed.

Yeah! I’ve been fail many of times and cried out so much because I didn’t know that who I’m what I want, I was always trying to be a topper in my class as other girls because of their fucking attitude and ego. I expect so high from myself so as my parents did from me, and after failing I get disappointed or cried.

I’d lot of baggage of disappointment, sadness, lost ness, pettiness, disgust, tears.

And so much more, love, breakup’s even when I didn’t know the holy shit meaning of love.

But yeah that was the phase, not now today I’m a strong, positive, mysterious, curious, funny, loving girl who wants to know about all universe.

Who wants to do everything.

Who believe in everything.

I’m a damn believer. I’m weird too but difference is now I’m happy with all who I’m and proud to accept myself.

These all due to the faith on god and his grace. I loved him so much and he loved me back, he taught me so much, he took care of all mine. I’ve fought with him many times, asked so many bull shits.

But he never get angry with me, never punished me instead always given me more strength and sense to figure out all the things.

The most damn terrible ting is we don’t dare to accept our true self so how we can accept others h?

We don’t understand ourself our desire, our hearts voice, so how we can understand others?

We don’t have any relationship with our soul, mind, heart so how we can even think for once to a complete relationship with other?

If you can’t live with you so how can any other one can live with you?

Why the hell we see dreams of happy marriages, long lived love or more and more shit for being happy?

If you really want happiness so be you, accept you and just love you.

What I’ve left behind, nothing

To dream that you are looking through the rearview mirror suggests that you are dwelling on the past too much. It may indicate regrets, past hurts or “what ifs”. On the other hand, the dream may be telling you not to forget about the past and what you have left behind.

Yes as I’m studying my dreams so today I dreamt something as watching myself in mirror that means I find this interpretation.

Find so true to me as I’m dwelling between so many things of my past.

Within last three-four days I’ve written my all incomplete and past though difficult stories or share someone to a writer or director.

While writing I’ve touch all those moments again that I’ve lived some day. All those memories keep as that safe in the back of my mind.

To remember all and a regret, hurt everything when you remember.

When I think to complete those dreams but much difficult actually impossible.

Regret to I never said things that I felt for them. There is only one life may be many but don’t know will meet them again, so regret.

But that’s ok!

Not okay is

The message- not to forget about past and what I’ve left behind.

Means that’s not at all a easy one

If I’ll not forget past could I live well. Even I couldn’t this now or when drowned in past so how will I make a shit?

Actually past is not all about these three one, there are so many things or people all over my sub -conscious mind.

But most of right all over my past is mine younger brother’s

Who left me 10 moths ago…

99 percent of my past actually no!

All past owned by him.

With whom you’ve lived your twenty-one years all days, night so many moments.

Happiness, fight everything.

He was my youngest brother two and half year that I always make remind him.

Even I couldn’t dare to enter this past not touch it because if I’ll just touch once,

I will have no control all over my mind and to any where.

The past take over me.

But while watching a brother, sister or fighting.

To watch playing badminton, anywhere I get into that…

We have played lot of badminton together in childhood. Even we had gone stadium to play at 3 or 4 am.

When someone came all of sudden so I get scared or remember he makes me scared knowingly or I get irritated, scold him.

When I give someone food yellow dal and rice by mixing so it comes to me this is the food that he had eaten so much and I’ve gave him…

Seeing his mark sheets and copies his writing for that I had scold him many times to improve writing.

I’d taught him so much, in his high-school, made him prepare for exams and he get slept.

When he used to breakfast, I used to memorise his syllabus to read loudly for the preparing his exams.

Even in so childhood when I was five, six year old make him sleep by singing a lullaby or jingle.

Once at that age we were only in room mom had locked us from outside and went to some neighbors home we were sleeping and a cow came inside to the door I got awake and scared I thought a elephant came but my brother he was also there he didn’t scared in fact he was consoling me or making me calm. Then he was only three and four year old.

As an elder sister of him I always felt as mother.

He always behaved as a care free and naughty child.

Giving his food, teaching him, playing with him, fighting with him, consoling, motivating him.

Everything…. this is a actual past of mine

And I don’t share his things, those memory with anyone I don’t want it’s all only mine will be always inside of my heart.

But I am angry with him how he can do this, if he would near to me so I’ll slapped him or scold him so much. I know it’s rude and ridiculous everyone will think why?

Or I’m insane

But I’m angry to him and will be always. Until he wouldn’t come to me or confess me all.

Dream Diary- decode the message

I’m a curious girl who obsessed with the “I want to know everything” as now studying or analysing my dreams.

Dreams have been always a mysterious subject for everyone so for me too…

Things seems as impossible or suspicious until you did not understand them.

Everything that are hated or loved firstly get understood.

There is a kind of joy and happiness to understanding all.”

I have to decode or unlock all the mysteries of this universe.

Now I’m studying and making a connection with my sub-conscious mind rather it can help me by telling me something that I couldn’t know through my conscious mind.

As I always been confused, chaotic, indecisive and dwelling between so many things.

“Lost on the each and every path, between the wondering voice of mind and heart.

I started to remember my dreams and write them in diary or finding their meaning or relate with them my present time situation of waking life.

And I get surprised it’s so effective what we could not find through any logic or knowledge, your sub conscious mind tells you so clearly and smoothly.

But dreams are a code language that we have to decode.

Our sub-conscious mind is the door between conscious or super-conscious mind.

Sub conscious mind works through getting all impulses, information or memory that are used or stored by our conscious mind and sometime a sense from super-conscious who all are on that stage, and tell us a message in dream that about to happen in future.

Means sub conscious mind also can predict things before happening in waking life or this world.

I have experienced this just within one two week.

Remembering dreams seems very difficult firstly or the important stage of study.

But not though difficult, just wake up in morning without getting hurry, lay for few time calmly or without getting involve in phone or any conversation try to remember dream.

Firstly you’ll get only one two random things but don’t irritate just caught them and store in back of mind and slowly slowly thing or go behind those things, while brushing, bathing and all think.

Sit silently few minutes without troubling with mind or any thought.

And you’ll get to start receiving your coded message of dream.

Then write it all on notebook while writing you’ll remember more. Write all small and specific things, your feeling, timing, color, surrounding and all.

Just continue this practice for daily.

This is a phase of knowledge and as much as knowledge you’ll have life will be easy to live.

These dreams will help you lot with dealing the difficult situation.

These dreams tell you that you couldn’t know in these years of your life. That you never realised. And those all things are stopping your progress or path.

Dreams will reveal your hidden fear, anxiety, insecurity, your purpose, truth of life. Everything.

Just be aware and jump into the sea of knowledge.

You’ll love your life.

Story has been always two sided

We always in hurry to judge just after knowing one sided story, I remembered when this incident happened so much debate in news channels where most of us justify this as the reaction of anger and humiliation of army by stone-pelters in kashmir.

#MeToo

But after so long just today read this next sided complete story.

And now what we judge will be complete justifiable but problem is after hearing both sided or knowing complete truth we can not judge anyone its been though difficult.

And also people of modern time couldn’t deal with that usually.

Here get the point that is why often peoples judge and take it easy to make assumptions and presumptions just after knowing few random things.

But while reading the story i was sad that i judge too and feel sorry for that boy. What army did without knowing all story was ok on their place they wanted to teach the lesson to misleading boys.

But we know very well that did not stop the stone-pelting and neither make stop misleading. And we know this is never the way of doing work by Indians.

We should accept ‘the thing went wrong in many ways it makes harm the image of Indian army, Indians, and the most important so much loss of that Indian boy.

Indian army is well organised and responsible army of every time now after knowing all truth and loss of that boy Indian government and Indian army should take responsibility and should pay a compensation money to him for his family and for his sick mother.

“At least we Indians known for our humanity we can not loose that”.

And Thanks to outlook media they present the whole story and show us a mirror.

Especially when many of news channels and online media are critisizing to being fake.

I am also thinking while writing this shouldn’t I be judge by others as taking a side but that I’m not doing. I felt something and being a writer I can only do anything so ‘write.

https://www.outlookindia.com/website/story/jk-armys-human-shield-branded-stone-pelter-farooq-ahmed-was-an-artisan-a-year-ag/310751

Source: outlook media

@NidhiSuryavanshi

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