Ann Dunham- A women behind the wall

[Inspiring Story] A woman who was cheated to get married at 18 and later on her son became the world’s biggest leader

Her name is Ann Dunham, She was brought up in a good family as the only child. She was a beautiful and rich white girl.

Ann was a straight-A student too and she entered university at the age of 16. When she was in the university, she met a boy!

This African man was a very popular guy at the university and He had won the hearts of many young women.

Both of them felt in love at first sight and after knowing each other for a few months they got married, at that time Ann was three months pregnant.

This newlywed should’ve been leading a happy life and whilst waiting for their son to be born, Ann soon found out that her husband was a cheater! He actually already had a wife and children at his hometown, so this marriage was a horrible fraud.

After the big disappointment, she decided to quietly gave birth to her son. At first she hoped by giving birth to their son and her husband will be more mature but instead, he left his wife and son who wasn’t even a month old and went to Harvard to pursue his Phd. Ann was only 18 years old at that time!

She was very angry and decided to file a divorce when the son was 2 years old. At that time interracial marriage was not permitted and she married a black man, she even gave birth to a child and then divorced. This was considered very unusual thing happened at that time.

After the divorce, her ex-husband did not provide them with any financial support for their child. Ann began her single mum’s life, looking after her child while attending her classes. When facing hardships, she just smiled. She did not want her child to be sad, and thought of ways to explain to her son:”You have a great and outstanding dad.” She was a good mum and gave his irresponsible dad credit.

But her son lacked fatherly love and it is still irreplaceable, slowly the son grew up and she was unable to hide the secret. So she explained the situation to her son.

After graduating with a Bachelor’s Degree and at the same time, an Indonesian student proposed to her. Ann accepted his proposal and began a new chapter of her life. She brought her son along to live in Indonesia. Although they lived in the outskirts, no power, no tarred roads but life was happy and meaningful. Three years later, she gave birth to her daughter.

Education in Indonesia at that time was very limited and she personally became her children’s teacher. She taught her children: We must be independent, strong and must not give up easily!

She was very strict in education, waking up at 4 am, telling her children to wake up and learn English then she went to work. After work she personally taught her children to do their homework.

Because her son has slightly darker skin, his peers used to call him ‘Blackie’ but she told her son not to feel inferior, Martin Luther King was also a black man.

A person’s achievement has nothing to do with skin color, everyone are born equal. A person’s most important qualities are honest, be independent and frank with their judgment.

Ann said: “Life is full of depression, but we can create a life that is fun and meaningful!”

She believed that she can live a meaningful life, believed that her children will become a responsible and useful person in the future. At 1992, she completed Phd and she was already 50 then!

Unfortunately, even though her life had improved tremendously, doctors diagnosed her with final stages of cervical and ovarian cancer. At the age of 53, she passed away!

She did’nt know that her son would one day become the first black President in America. Yes, you guessed it right, she is the late mother of ex-President of USA, Barrack Obama!

Ann’s teachings had given a huge impact to her children! No matter if you have children or not, please set aside your anxieties and complaints, to be excellent you must first be optimistic and positive!

She was a single mother who was always optimistic and moving forward, setting aside her failed marriage, misfortunes and life of hardship, she was independent, strong and hardworking. She has a compassionate heart and is a superwoman in her children’s eyes.

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Paulo Coelho – Dare to dream big

Paulo Coelho was admitted in a mental hospital 3 times because he wanted to be an ‘writer ‘

Really means to follow your passion and your heart and being different in this very world of normality is caused this much.

Paulo is a Brazilian lyricist and novelist or the recipient of numerous international awards.

He is best known for his widely translated novel The Alchemist.

He was born in Brazil and As a teenager, Coelho wanted to be a writer.

Upon telling his mother this, she responded, “My dear, your father is an engineer. He’s a logical, reasonable man with a very clear vision of the world.

Do you actually know what it means to be a writer?”

At 17, Coelho’s introversion and opposition to following a traditional path led to his parents committing him to a mental institution from which he escaped 3 times before being released at the age of 20.

Coelho later remarked that “It wasn’t that they wanted to hurt me, but they didn’t know what to do.

They didn’t do that to destroy me, they did that to save me.”

And after reading this I believe that None can say this without experience higher level of spiritualism.

At his parents’ wishes, Coelho enrolled in law school and abandoned his dream of becoming a writer.

One year later, he dropped out and lived life as a hippie, traveling through South America, North Africa, Mexico, and Europe and started using drugs in the 1960s.

Upon his return to Brazil, Coelho worked as a songwriter, or composing lyrics due to the content of some songs. In 1974, Coelho was arrested for “subversive” activities.

So as that in 1986, Coelho walked on the Road of Santiago in Spain, a turning point in his life.

On the path, Coelho had a spiritual awakening, which he described autobiographically in The Pilgrimage.

Coelho also worked as an actor, journalist, and theatre director before pursuing his writing career.

Remember that wherever your heart is,

There you will find your treasure.

Paulo #Coelho

Know your passions: they are the key to your physical and mental well-being

Having passions is an essential part of being human, and all people are passionate about something. If you feel like you don’t have any passions, it is probably because you haven’t discovered them yet.
When you’re doing something that you feel passionate about, you should know it intuitively because you kind of “lose yourself” in it.

This is why people often describe a change in their perception of time when they are doing something they are passionate about. Musicians often spend hours rehearsing or writing music without noticing the passing time. Ask yourself, what in your life makes you feel this way?
The positive mental feeling you get when you’re immersed in your passions affects your physical well-being too. The Harvard Study of Adult Development has studied extensively the connection between positive emotions and health. Experiencing positive emotions has been proven to reduce stress, reduce chronic pain and addictions, and improve sleep and concentration, among many other positive benefits.
Passions are an important and intrinsic part of every person, so you should create opportunities to allow yourself to discover them.

The more opportunities you give yourself to discover your passions, the happier and healthier you will become. Explore new physical and social environments, and research new fields you aren’t familiar with but are curious about; for example, by taking classes, joining relevant book groups or finding online communities. Look into new physical activities like sports or learn a craft that requires skilled use of your hands. The more unknown situations you explore, the more room you have to discover unknown passions.

Do not loan money if someone is following their passion. Yes it is a advice to bankers Because it is going to change and so much change.
Passion is a strong emotion of desire or enthusiasm felt for another person or for an activity.

You don’t follow your passion your passion follows you.
Passion is not something very destined and a thing for that you waiting for so long and finding it or looking for it.

Passion is just a feeling that can be for a job, for a person for a love for a place.

You can feel it for anything and differently on the different time but we get afraid and more then us our parents when our passion get changed on the bit difference of the time.

As it happens with all and with me also when I was so young I decided to be Dr. And started to think of it dreamt of it and also making efforts all in step by step 10th, 12th, B.Sc cpmt , Aipmt coachings. Instead, getting failed and succeed I was trying next to next but a level comes and suddenly I felt nothing for it no passion even if I get 1st rank , free admission or if someone gives me millions of rs. May be even though I didn’t study mbbs or became Dr. I just can’t think about it and felt for sometime a blankness, nothing was coming in my mind what to do after B.sc. I decided to not to study more and not to do anything.
But then my family convience me so much and i realised I love social work or helping people from childhood so studied MSW from distance learning and in these two years I lived a life of century.

Experienced lots of things did all that comes in my mind reading lots of books and traveling so much. Joined new social sites Twitter, LinkedIn then felt passion for astrology so i did it completely from learning, making notes and looking hand also of so many.

Then felt for writing so started to write for a news paper and then my blog and in other news papers.

And most important my poems I wrote almost 20 poems till now in hindi and English both. Started to feel passion for art so made few paintings and also learn so much like short hand, Corel draw, tally and also did job for a month there learnt much.

Experienced more spiritualism and deepness of meditation understand more truth about life and life-meaning.

Passion also awaken for forest and adventure so I read and watch lots of about it and imagine much but couldn’t do in real it’s not possible to do all the things of this world so for that there is a imagination it’s a very incredible thing that can make us infinite.

Now i want to help people to find their true self or for living their passion that only thing can make their journey of life complete or make them free from the cycle of surviving.

Then only they can see or feel beauty and essence of life and love.

So don’t get stuck or busy to find your passion just start doing a thing that you like or love that give you happiness or satisfaction it’s a passion.

And it’s your fire and efforts that helps others too in their duty.

Nidhi Singh

Yoga and these 5 Foods Prevent from Alzheimer’s Will Boost your Memory

https://www.newsgram.com/yoga-and-these-5-foods-prevent-alzheimer-and-boost-your-memory/

Alzheimer is a progressive cognitive disorder that destroys memory and other important mental function

•In the initial stage memory loss is mild but with the time it gets worse and also causes death

•There is no current cure for this but studies show certain yoga postures and natural foods can prevent from dementia and memory loss

Prepared by Nidhi Singh of NewsGram.Com
Twitter @NidhiSuryavansi  

Freedom: The Goal Of Life

Freedom pays, it brings soberness, spiritualism and happiness to life. “The amount of happiness that you have depends on the amount of freedom you have in your heart.”

“To be happy is to be free; to be free is to surrender from all that prevents you from fully enjoying and experiencing your true potential and joy.” The truth will set you free from anger, hatred and bitterness and it make you uncontroversial, unconventional and unconcerned. “All the things which don’t nourish your soul…Let it Go.” Do only what you love to do, go where your heart leads you.

Because in this whole world if you have most faithful thing so that is only your heart. Never bind yourself in any limitation, boundaries of religion, cast, rituals, and society. There is only one life to live it in your own way, by your own wishes and desires. Find freedom to be yourself, and express yourself.

According to Sanatana Dharma, the supreme goal of life is freedom (moksha). In ancient times, in order to achieve this goal, society was divided into four Ashramas, i.e. Brahmacharya, Garhasthya, Vanaprastha and Sannyasa. This ideal of freedom taught to students from the very first Ashrama and they used to practice japa, Dhyana, yoga in order to purify their minds to achieve that goal. Students were taught in Gurukula Ashramas both spiritual and secular knowledge. After fulfilling their responsibilities as households, people used to retire into the forest to prepare themselves for the ultimate goal, completely renouncing worldly attachment. But today, people are not even aware that they caught in such bondage. Only through Self-knowledge one attains to freedom, which is the purpose of human life. The religion which helps us to achieve that freedom is true religion. Here are the words of “swami Vivekananda” on true religion:
“Each soul is potentially divine; the goal is to manifest this Divinity within by controlling nature, external and internal. Do this either by work, or worship, or psychic control, or philosophy- by one, or more, or all of these- and be free. This is the whole of religion. Doctrines or dogmas, or rituals, or books or temples, or forms are but secondary details.”

 

 

 

 

Alone

It’s probably not just by chance that I’m alone. It would be very hard for a man to live with me, unless he’s terribly strong. And if he’s stronger than I, I’m the one who can’t live with him. … I’m neither smart nor stupid, but I don’t think I’m a run-of-the-mill person. I’ve been in business without being a businesswoman, I’ve loved without being a woman made only for love. The two men I’ve loved, I think, will remember me, on earth or in heaven, because men always remember a woman who caused them concern and uneasiness. I’ve done my best, in regard to people and to life, without precepts, but with a taste for justice.

– Coco Chanel

This is the most peaceful time in human history- Bill Gates

If I could give each of you a graduation present, it would be this–the most inspiring book I’ve ever read. Book of Steven pinker, “THE BETTER ANGELS OF OUR NATURE” in which SAPinker shows how the world is getting better. Sounds crazy, but it’s true. This is the most peaceful time in human history.This is an amazing time to be alive. I hope you make the most of it. – Bill Gates

Yeah these all said by bill gates on Twitter in so many tweets and I completely agree with him that today we are living in a not less than perfect society I know None of think this way because acorrding to us this is the most chiotic and conflicted period of the world and there are so many examples like terrorism in so many different forms and faces, poverty, diseases, illiteracy, struggle, climate change, global warming, water, overpopulation and so many but these all are the problems that we are seeing because we are here in this era but how can you say these all and more than these problems and struggle was not before, there was but we were not there so we can not assume but imagine today there is these much problems when we have all the knowledge, intelligence, education, rules, laws through that we can make everything possible yeah there are still so many who are fighting for survival but those have also the enough ways or options through that they can live or survive or so many are now so far away from the game of survival especially in all western countries that is way they are using their intelligence towards other like moon, marsh, black hole, nuclear weapon, technologies, science are making everything is so comfortable and easy or we should accept that this is the most easiest and perfect time of all human-beings of all the centuries as we all have read history and concept of evolution and all the periods in which humans are struggling for finding their intelligence finding their own need, and ways like bronze age, iron age and etc. from that time to till now everyone are firstly fight for survival when they get enough so then they ask for something more his curiosity increases and that is the result of all what we have today actually I also did not understand this if I didn’t see the world’s most famous show “Game Of Thrones” yeah truly this is a fiction but as we say fiction also take our from the reality even fiction is more realistic then reality. 

So I want to say that really if you want to see positivity that is we are in the golden age and most comforting age of the society if you don’t want to became and feel as a victim like we always say this is the worst time of earth there is so much conflict and struggle so please read once the book of George R. R. Martin’s “A Song of Ice and Fire”

Or you can watch the show “Game Of Thrones” I think this is not just the show this is the complete history and reality of human- being and very harsh reality of survival, when there was no God, no beliefs, culture, laws, no education, there was nothing except the anger, cruelty, cheat, power and feeding. After seeing that, I’m glad I have taken birth in this civilised and developed society I know there is also so many bad things there is if one person is good so other one is bad but even this bad is the part of good, right is the part of wrong, happiness is a part of sadness so these all are one thing if you want only happiness so it means you are asking for a body without the soul, you are asking for the vision but without eyes, so we’ll have to accept this is a simple law there is nothing wrong in this so if there are terrorist who are bad so we have many of good military, army, weapons- nuclear, atom, chemical given by America, Russia everyone are fighting against terrorism means percentage of good is so much then bad so just relax or by the way here everyone want to become good and hero so if there is nothing bad or no villain so how can you describe as a good? 
Even i think bad is actual fine and good is dangerous in fact being good is a scam, these good ones are those who make or give  birth to bad ones for showing or becaming hero and for adventures because human nature is like if once we get away from the normal survival of living and feeding so we want always something new and something  for amuse like adventure that is the reason we invented nuclear and atom bomb, robots, and so many technologies now imagine there are these much big weapons or there is no terrorism, there is no one is bad then what?

No war, no fight, so no amusement and no one will be good and hero even if now we are on moon and marsh so what do you think for what ? only because whole world want to become good and peaceful and equally strengthend so they said fine means now we will have to find out someone who are more powerful and different from us just understand this is the only point of difference a man is different from us and we instead accept him, discriminate him as a bad, or wrong so we are on moon and marsh not for land to live because now also earth has so much place to live or enough to survive but no we are finding aliens for fighting and proving our power and goodness, one day we’ll meet with aliens and ask for their land or when they’ll deny we’ll start to call them villain or we have enough bombs and weapons and we can’t waste them so there should be a place to use it.

As we see in Hollywood movies there is no planet left where we did not fight or win means human can not seat with peace we always searching for something big, something more and this is the only reason what we are today facing conflict, struggle whatever so it will never stop till then humans are alive.

So apart from this we are in the perfect time and perfect society and can do more and everything for making peace and everyone’s lives more better.