A remarkable story of actor Abhijay singh- who dare to dream and make it real

To oppose the natural flow of life takes lots of courage,

That comes after aching your all body from inside-out.

This is what Abhijay Singh did, he dare to dream, when an average person even couldn’t think.

Abhijay singh is a 26 year old Indian actor. He saw a dream, when life had broken him completely, when most of people start dying slowly and no one can save them.

Abhijay rescued himself, and turned the flow according to him. He crossed the narrow line and began to write his destiny with the ink of faith and determination.

Abhijay said “Only dead fish go with the flow” and I wasn’t dead at that, but yeah I was on the way.

There were, and there are most of as me, I want to be free and set them too…

I want people learn to see dream, a new dream each day.

Early Life-

Abhijay born in a poor family of farmers based in the village of Shahjahanpur of UP India.

Where survival is the only aim of all family abhijay was also contributing. There wasn’t much scope for education but somehow his siblings (4 brothers and 3 sisters) and he managed to study.

He has completed his study from the public school and for pursuing Bachelor in art taken admission in a college of Lucknow but had to leave studies in the middle due to money.

Then he continually worked till the four years as a labour, as a watchmen and also in restaurants.

He said, “I was dying slowly- slowly from inside but there was a kind of voice

Always trying to be loud, that you’re not made for the road of normality;

But there wasn’t any way, only dark throughout all sides.

Abhijay said, time was going worst and worst day by day, sometimes I was hungry throughout three, four days in a week.

Stomachache and vomiting also happened many times due to hunger.

Even I’ve eaten soaked wheat with salt. I’ve been cheated many times; people have also made fun of me and my condition.

That was the darkest period of my life rather, just remembering all of that drown me in lots of pain.

But there was a thing that I never gave up, and after facing these all, I thought there nothing more worst can be happen than this so from here I’ve to go only ahead and get good.

And I decided to pursue my dream and I joined a theatre group in lakhnow.

I worked there for four years and then I dare much more and decided to go Bombay.

But didn’t have courage to told parents in that situation, when all were trying hard only to live and I was going to become actor.

They obviously consider me an insane.

But after sometime I told my mother and in 2010, she gave me little money after selling her gold earring and blessed me.

I moved Bombay “with the only luggage of my dreams and so many hopes.”

I get failed many times in auditions and face many rejections so I returned for learning acting and I was going third time in that city, which had thrown me out before two times.

But this time I had a kind of confidence in me, after seeing this much failure, I thought I cannot go more down than this.

Rejections stopped affecting me; it became just another thing after I went through emotions of shock, anger, frustration every time, in that order.

Till that i was completely fearless and void.

Now I don’t afraid from anything.

From there my real journey begins…

Firstly I got an opportunity to perform in the play based on the fight of 1857 in the theatre situated at china road. I have gotten 500 rupee for a show that also after so many rehearsals and waiting of months.

After that people started to notice me and from then I worked in many TV serials as “Diya or baati”, “Bade acche lagte h”, “Jhansi ki rani”, “Savdhan India”, and in short films and in movies “Mahendra Singh Dhoni”, “DNA” and “Ghandhi.”

And now his first film (dastoor) as main lead with the actress sonal chauhan and actor govinda with the director ‘chitresh mehra’ is about to start in lakhnow. There are more three-four films those will be schedule in next year.

He is defiantly going to be a next super-star and a exceptional actor in Indian cinema.

After knowing his remarkable story and writing on him here I want to dedicate few lines of my favorite movie’s ‘Shawshank redemption’ to him and his infinite courage.

“Some birds aren’t meant to be caged.

Their feathers are just too bright.”



 Written by @NidhiSuryavansi

Based on conversation with Abhijay singh.









Stephen Hawking- unlocked the secret of ‘Universe

Hawking was born on 8 January 1942 in Oxford.

Today he died at the aged, 76

He has lived such a long, deep and meaningful life while dwelling within knowledge and universe.

Even after a pathetic disease, with a paralysed body.

And when his Dr. Said to him, almost 50 years ago that he has only two years,

He fought a huge war, and unlock the secrete of universe ‘Black hole’, ‘Big bang’.

And also win it with full grace. Today I am sad to remember him and also bow to him a great, and one in centuries human-being.

He has done so much work but even there is much more that he would love to do, so he’ll definetly born again. RIP Stephen Hawking

His life story-

Hawking considered as highly intelligent and somewhat eccentric;

Hawking began his schooling at the Byron House School in Highgate, London. He later blamed its “progressive methods” for his failure to learn to read while at the school.

The eight-year-old Hawking attended St Albans High School for Girls for a few months.

A positive consequence was that Hawking remained with a close group of friends with whom he enjoyed board games, the manufacture of fireworks, model aeroplanes and boats, and long discussions about Christianity and extrasensory perception.

From 1958 on, with the help of the mathematics teacher they built a computer from clock parts, an old telephone switchboard and other recycled components.

Although known at school as “Einstein”, Hawking was not initially successful academically.

With time, he began to show considerable aptitude for scientific subjects and, inspired by Tahta, decided to read mathematics at university.

Hawking decided to study physics and chemistry. Despite his headmaster’s advice to wait until the next year, Hawking was awarded a scholarship.

Hawking began his university education at University College, Oxford at the age of 17.

For the first 18 months, he was bored and lonely – he found the academic work “ridiculously easy”.

“People who boast about their IQ are losers.”

—Stephen Hawking

A change occurred during his second and third year when, according to Berman, Hawking made more of an effort “to be one of the boys”.

He developed into a popular, lively and witty college member, interested in classical music and science fiction.

“Intelligence is the ability to adapt the change.”

—Stephen Hawking

Hawking estimated that he studied about a thousand hours during his three years at Oxford. These unimpressive study habits made sitting his finals a challenge.

Anxious, he slept poorly the night before the examinations, and the final result was on the borderline between first- and second-class honours, making a viva (oral examination) necessary.

Hawking was concerned that he was viewed as a lazy and difficult student.

So, when asked at the oral to describe his future plans, he said, “If you award me a First, I will go to Cambridge. If I receive a Second, I shall stay in Oxford, so I expect you will give me a First.” (Witty and clever)

“Live would be tragic, if it weren’t funny.”

—Stephen Hawking

He was held in higher regard than he believed; as the examiners “were intelligent enough to realise they were talking to someone far cleverer than most of themselves”.

“Quite people have the loudest mind.”

—Stephen Hawking

After receiving a first-classBA (Hons.) degree in natural science and completing a trip to Iran with a friend, he began his graduate work at Trinity Hall, Cambridge.

After being diagnosed with motor neurone disease, Hawking fell into a depression – though his doctors advised that he continue with his studies, he felt there was little point.

“My expectations were reduced to zero when I was 21. Everything since then had been a bonus.”

—Stephen Hawking

His disease progressed more slowly than doctors had predicted.

Although Hawking had difficulty walking unsupported, and his speech was almost unintelligible, an initial diagnosis that he had only two years to live proved unfounded.

When Hawking applied the same thinking to the entire universe; Black hole, Big-bang and, during 1965, he wrote his thesis on this topic.

Hawking’s thesis was approved in 1966.

There were other positive developments: in March 1966; and his essay titled “Singularities and the Geometry of Space-Time” shared top honours with one by Penrose to win that year’s prestigious Adams Prize.

He had won numerous awards, and his written one of book sold out the millions of copies. And on his complete life there made a movie The Theory of Everything, in 2014.

As he slowly lost the ability to write, he developed compensatory visual methods, including seeing equations in terms of geometry.

The physicist Werner Israel later compared the achievements to Mozart composing an entire symphony in his head.

Hawking was fiercely independent and unwilling to accept help or make concessions for his disabilities.

“While there’s life, there is hope.”

—Stephen Hawking

He preferred to be regarded as “a scientist first, popular science writer second, and, in all the ways that matter, a normal human being with the same desires, drives, dreams, and ambitions as the next person.

#StephenHawking #BlackHole #BigBang #Universe

Then you start dying slowly

You start dying slowly

if you do not travel,

if you do not read,

If you do not listen to the sounds of life,

If you do not appreciate yourself.

You start dying slowly

When you kill your self-esteem;

When you do not let others help you.

You start dying slowly

If you become a slave of your habits,

Walking everyday on the same paths…

If you do not change your routine,

If you do not wear different colours

Or you do not speak to those you don’t know.

You start dying slowly

If you avoid to feel passion

And their turbulent emotions;

Those which make your eyes glisten

And your heart beat fast.

You start dying slowly

If you do not change your life when you are not satisfied with your job, or with your love,

If you do not risk what is safe for the uncertain,

If you do not go after a dream,

If you do not allow yourself,

At least once in your lifetime,

To run away from sensible advice.

Martha Medeiros

Dying at single time is fine but dying to being alive is very cruel death as that no one would ever like to die. After living a well and all life if at the moment your breath gets stop so that is not dying.

Death is the doorway of next and new birth.

As Da Vinci had said, “As a day well spent brings blessed sleep, so a life well lived brings a blessed death.”

But if there is no aim, no passion and no dream in your life, you wouldn’t be able to live. Life will be a cage for you and as much as time will pass cage and bondage will be strong that you never would break.

Each and every breathing would be a death.

So always give yourself a new dream, always try to do something new, something big and challenging.

Ann Dunham- A women behind the wall

[Inspiring Story] A woman who was cheated to get married at 18 and later on her son became the world’s biggest leader

Her name is Ann Dunham, She was brought up in a good family as the only child. She was a beautiful and rich white girl.

Ann was a straight-A student too and she entered university at the age of 16. When she was in the university, she met a boy!

This African man was a very popular guy at the university and He had won the hearts of many young women.

Both of them felt in love at first sight and after knowing each other for a few months they got married, at that time Ann was three months pregnant.

This newlywed should’ve been leading a happy life and whilst waiting for their son to be born, Ann soon found out that her husband was a cheater! He actually already had a wife and children at his hometown, so this marriage was a horrible fraud.

After the big disappointment, she decided to quietly gave birth to her son. At first she hoped by giving birth to their son and her husband will be more mature but instead, he left his wife and son who wasn’t even a month old and went to Harvard to pursue his Phd. Ann was only 18 years old at that time!

She was very angry and decided to file a divorce when the son was 2 years old. At that time interracial marriage was not permitted and she married a black man, she even gave birth to a child and then divorced. This was considered very unusual thing happened at that time.

After the divorce, her ex-husband did not provide them with any financial support for their child. Ann began her single mum’s life, looking after her child while attending her classes. When facing hardships, she just smiled. She did not want her child to be sad, and thought of ways to explain to her son:”You have a great and outstanding dad.” She was a good mum and gave his irresponsible dad credit.

But her son lacked fatherly love and it is still irreplaceable, slowly the son grew up and she was unable to hide the secret. So she explained the situation to her son.

After graduating with a Bachelor’s Degree and at the same time, an Indonesian student proposed to her. Ann accepted his proposal and began a new chapter of her life. She brought her son along to live in Indonesia. Although they lived in the outskirts, no power, no tarred roads but life was happy and meaningful. Three years later, she gave birth to her daughter.

Education in Indonesia at that time was very limited and she personally became her children’s teacher. She taught her children: We must be independent, strong and must not give up easily!

She was very strict in education, waking up at 4 am, telling her children to wake up and learn English then she went to work. After work she personally taught her children to do their homework.

Because her son has slightly darker skin, his peers used to call him ‘Blackie’ but she told her son not to feel inferior, Martin Luther King was also a black man.

A person’s achievement has nothing to do with skin color, everyone are born equal. A person’s most important qualities are honest, be independent and frank with their judgment.

Ann said: “Life is full of depression, but we can create a life that is fun and meaningful!”

She believed that she can live a meaningful life, believed that her children will become a responsible and useful person in the future. At 1992, she completed Phd and she was already 50 then!

Unfortunately, even though her life had improved tremendously, doctors diagnosed her with final stages of cervical and ovarian cancer. At the age of 53, she passed away!

She did’nt know that her son would one day become the first black President in America. Yes, you guessed it right, she is the late mother of ex-President of USA, Barrack Obama!

Ann’s teachings had given a huge impact to her children! No matter if you have children or not, please set aside your anxieties and complaints, to be excellent you must first be optimistic and positive!

She was a single mother who was always optimistic and moving forward, setting aside her failed marriage, misfortunes and life of hardship, she was independent, strong and hardworking. She has a compassionate heart and is a superwoman in her children’s eyes.

Paulo Coelho – Dare to dream big

Paulo Coelho was admitted in a mental hospital 3 times because he wanted to be an ‘writer ‘

Really means to follow your passion and your heart and being different in this very world of normality is caused this much.

Paulo is a Brazilian lyricist and novelist or the recipient of numerous international awards.

He is best known for his widely translated novel The Alchemist.

He was born in Brazil and As a teenager, Coelho wanted to be a writer.

Upon telling his mother this, she responded, “My dear, your father is an engineer. He’s a logical, reasonable man with a very clear vision of the world.

Do you actually know what it means to be a writer?”

At 17, Coelho’s introversion and opposition to following a traditional path led to his parents committing him to a mental institution from which he escaped 3 times before being released at the age of 20.

Coelho later remarked that “It wasn’t that they wanted to hurt me, but they didn’t know what to do.

They didn’t do that to destroy me, they did that to save me.”

And after reading this I believe that None can say this without experience higher level of spiritualism.

At his parents’ wishes, Coelho enrolled in law school and abandoned his dream of becoming a writer.

One year later, he dropped out and lived life as a hippie, traveling through South America, North Africa, Mexico, and Europe and started using drugs in the 1960s.

Upon his return to Brazil, Coelho worked as a songwriter, or composing lyrics due to the content of some songs. In 1974, Coelho was arrested for “subversive” activities.

So as that in 1986, Coelho walked on the Road of Santiago in Spain, a turning point in his life.

On the path, Coelho had a spiritual awakening, which he described autobiographically in The Pilgrimage.

Coelho also worked as an actor, journalist, and theatre director before pursuing his writing career.

Remember that wherever your heart is,

There you will find your treasure.

Paulo #Coelho

The one you can imagine is present

The one you can imagine is present,

“creation is the hypothesis of realizing it, which has already existed.” – shrimadbhagavat (9th century)

You can imagine what you want – it already exists. It does not matter which and how big and difficult it is if you can imagine it, it is already present to be created in the field of creation.

This is not something that discovered or written yesterday.

but this mentioned in the oldest scriptures of five thousand years ago which had been forgotten somewhere along the way,

but as you know that truth is like the sunlight even if It seems to be hidden in the clouds for a while but after removing it, it seems to be visible. None can hide and change the universal truth.

That process of creation has been completed and whatever thing is possible, it has come into being.

Five thousand years later, of our teaching in srimadbhagavatam now science – Quantam Physics has also confirmed that at this time any other possibility is really in existence.

“The creation of the heavens and the earth and everything between them is completed”.

So first thing is, there is no meaning of impossible in this earth.

Whatever you and we all are thinking is possible. And second thing, we think that this is only mine so no! here all the of whole “this world”.

This is not the thought and philosophy that you given. This is not the thing that you invented and discovered. It all has been already. You get this, so touch it or that you can feel proud on yourselves.

Either can be say, creation always search for a medium through that something can pass like that you and we all are mediums for something in which we contribute.

Know your passions: they are the key to your physical and mental well-being

Having passions is an essential part of being human, and all people are passionate about something. If you feel like you don’t have any passions, it is probably because you haven’t discovered them yet.
When you’re doing something that you feel passionate about, you should know it intuitively because you kind of “lose yourself” in it.

This is why people often describe a change in their perception of time when they are doing something they are passionate about. Musicians often spend hours rehearsing or writing music without noticing the passing time. Ask yourself, what in your life makes you feel this way?
The positive mental feeling you get when you’re immersed in your passions affects your physical well-being too. The Harvard Study of Adult Development has studied extensively the connection between positive emotions and health. Experiencing positive emotions has been proven to reduce stress, reduce chronic pain and addictions, and improve sleep and concentration, among many other positive benefits.
Passions are an important and intrinsic part of every person, so you should create opportunities to allow yourself to discover them.

The more opportunities you give yourself to discover your passions, the happier and healthier you will become. Explore new physical and social environments, and research new fields you aren’t familiar with but are curious about; for example, by taking classes, joining relevant book groups or finding online communities. Look into new physical activities like sports or learn a craft that requires skilled use of your hands. The more unknown situations you explore, the more room you have to discover unknown passions.

Do not loan money if someone is following their passion. Yes it is a advice to bankers Because it is going to change and so much change.
Passion is a strong emotion of desire or enthusiasm felt for another person or for an activity.

You don’t follow your passion your passion follows you.
Passion is not something very destined and a thing for that you waiting for so long and finding it or looking for it.

Passion is just a feeling that can be for a job, for a person for a love for a place.

You can feel it for anything and differently on the different time but we get afraid and more then us our parents when our passion get changed on the bit difference of the time.

As it happens with all and with me also when I was so young I decided to be Dr. And started to think of it dreamt of it and also making efforts all in step by step 10th, 12th, B.Sc cpmt , Aipmt coachings. Instead, getting failed and succeed I was trying next to next but a level comes and suddenly I felt nothing for it no passion even if I get 1st rank , free admission or if someone gives me millions of rs. May be even though I didn’t study mbbs or became Dr. I just can’t think about it and felt for sometime a blankness, nothing was coming in my mind what to do after B.sc. I decided to not to study more and not to do anything.
But then my family convience me so much and i realised I love social work or helping people from childhood so studied MSW from distance learning and in these two years I lived a life of century.

Experienced lots of things did all that comes in my mind reading lots of books and traveling so much. Joined new social sites Twitter, LinkedIn then felt passion for astrology so i did it completely from learning, making notes and looking hand also of so many.

Then felt for writing so started to write for a news paper and then my blog and in other news papers.

And most important my poems I wrote almost 20 poems till now in hindi and English both. Started to feel passion for art so made few paintings and also learn so much like short hand, Corel draw, tally and also did job for a few month there learnt much.

Experienced more spiritualism and deepness of meditation understand more truth about life and life-meaning.

Passion also awaken for forest and adventure so I read and watch lots of about it and imagine much but couldn’t do in real it’s not possible to do all the things of this world so for that there is a imagination it’s a very incredible thing that can make us infinite.

Now i want to help people to find their true self or for living their passion that only thing can make their journey of life complete or make them free from the cycle of surviving.

Then only they can see or feel beauty and essence of life and love.

So don’t get stuck or busy to find your passion just start doing a thing that you like or love that give you happiness or satisfaction it’s a passion.

And it’s your fire and efforts that helps others too in their duty.

Nidhi Singh