Ann Dunham- A women behind the wall

[Inspiring Story] A woman who was cheated to get married at 18 and later on her son became the world’s biggest leader

Her name is Ann Dunham, She was brought up in a good family as the only child. She was a beautiful and rich white girl.

Ann was a straight-A student too and she entered university at the age of 16. When she was in the university, she met a boy!

This African man was a very popular guy at the university and He had won the hearts of many young women.

Both of them felt in love at first sight and after knowing each other for a few months they got married, at that time Ann was three months pregnant.

This newlywed should’ve been leading a happy life and whilst waiting for their son to be born, Ann soon found out that her husband was a cheater! He actually already had a wife and children at his hometown, so this marriage was a horrible fraud.

After the big disappointment, she decided to quietly gave birth to her son. At first she hoped by giving birth to their son and her husband will be more mature but instead, he left his wife and son who wasn’t even a month old and went to Harvard to pursue his Phd. Ann was only 18 years old at that time!

She was very angry and decided to file a divorce when the son was 2 years old. At that time interracial marriage was not permitted and she married a black man, she even gave birth to a child and then divorced. This was considered very unusual thing happened at that time.

After the divorce, her ex-husband did not provide them with any financial support for their child. Ann began her single mum’s life, looking after her child while attending her classes. When facing hardships, she just smiled. She did not want her child to be sad, and thought of ways to explain to her son:”You have a great and outstanding dad.” She was a good mum and gave his irresponsible dad credit.

But her son lacked fatherly love and it is still irreplaceable, slowly the son grew up and she was unable to hide the secret. So she explained the situation to her son.

After graduating with a Bachelor’s Degree and at the same time, an Indonesian student proposed to her. Ann accepted his proposal and began a new chapter of her life. She brought her son along to live in Indonesia. Although they lived in the outskirts, no power, no tarred roads but life was happy and meaningful. Three years later, she gave birth to her daughter.

Education in Indonesia at that time was very limited and she personally became her children’s teacher. She taught her children: We must be independent, strong and must not give up easily!

She was very strict in education, waking up at 4 am, telling her children to wake up and learn English then she went to work. After work she personally taught her children to do their homework.

Because her son has slightly darker skin, his peers used to call him ‘Blackie’ but she told her son not to feel inferior, Martin Luther King was also a black man.

A person’s achievement has nothing to do with skin color, everyone are born equal. A person’s most important qualities are honest, be independent and frank with their judgment.

Ann said: “Life is full of depression, but we can create a life that is fun and meaningful!”

She believed that she can live a meaningful life, believed that her children will become a responsible and useful person in the future. At 1992, she completed Phd and she was already 50 then!

Unfortunately, even though her life had improved tremendously, doctors diagnosed her with final stages of cervical and ovarian cancer. At the age of 53, she passed away!

She did’nt know that her son would one day become the first black President in America. Yes, you guessed it right, she is the late mother of ex-President of USA, Barrack Obama!

Ann’s teachings had given a huge impact to her children! No matter if you have children or not, please set aside your anxieties and complaints, to be excellent you must first be optimistic and positive!

She was a single mother who was always optimistic and moving forward, setting aside her failed marriage, misfortunes and life of hardship, she was independent, strong and hardworking. She has a compassionate heart and is a superwoman in her children’s eyes.

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Paulo Coelho – Dare to dream big

Paulo Coelho was admitted in a mental hospital 3 times because he wanted to be an ‘writer ‘

Really means to follow your passion and your heart and being different in this very world of normality is caused this much.

Paulo is a Brazilian lyricist and novelist or the recipient of numerous international awards.

He is best known for his widely translated novel The Alchemist.

He was born in Brazil and As a teenager, Coelho wanted to be a writer.

Upon telling his mother this, she responded, “My dear, your father is an engineer. He’s a logical, reasonable man with a very clear vision of the world.

Do you actually know what it means to be a writer?”

At 17, Coelho’s introversion and opposition to following a traditional path led to his parents committing him to a mental institution from which he escaped 3 times before being released at the age of 20.

Coelho later remarked that “It wasn’t that they wanted to hurt me, but they didn’t know what to do.

They didn’t do that to destroy me, they did that to save me.”

And after reading this I believe that None can say this without experience higher level of spiritualism.

At his parents’ wishes, Coelho enrolled in law school and abandoned his dream of becoming a writer.

One year later, he dropped out and lived life as a hippie, traveling through South America, North Africa, Mexico, and Europe and started using drugs in the 1960s.

Upon his return to Brazil, Coelho worked as a songwriter, or composing lyrics due to the content of some songs. In 1974, Coelho was arrested for “subversive” activities.

So as that in 1986, Coelho walked on the Road of Santiago in Spain, a turning point in his life.

On the path, Coelho had a spiritual awakening, which he described autobiographically in The Pilgrimage.

Coelho also worked as an actor, journalist, and theatre director before pursuing his writing career.

Remember that wherever your heart is,

There you will find your treasure.

Paulo #Coelho

Eyes are overflowing with tears

Don’t cry, don’t cry….

we’ll not cry dear, I’m saying I will be there for you.

What ever you want to do, I will make for you I will complete your all desires and wishes. I have never said this to anyone else, there is bran you can ask him. Ok!

She replied yes!

But at last to reach on gate and going outside she bent to cry and due to her, his soft heart also get wretched and couldn’t hold much long the pressure.

And his eyes filled with the overflowing tears.

But this tears were for gratitude whatever she did to him, in each & every moment she was with him.

One month ago, she had met with him in a public place and in a unknown city with full of strangers and darkened peoples. There were many of people’s but don’t know what make them connect with each other.

May be their beautiful and lovely heart.

While starting she make introduced her to him and others also. She was from a small place and a very ordinary girl but stay forward, strong and honest. That is others don’t like about her but he liked.

He was from a big city and well settled, intelligent, smart and mature human being. But bit of sensitive from inside that others couldn’t understand and mock him.

He had eyes to see good and truth so he find her as a good companion.

Both always stand for each other and support in all kind of circumstances.

And days getting easier and easier for both of them to manage in a unknown place.

But finally a day came when she had to go return, she didn’t want to go.

But arrangement are like this that She can not stay more or no one can stop her and also none want to stop except one person,

Yet few moment ago he was saying to her that in coming days relationship will be very important to survive here and thank god we have that truest relationship. But unfortunate god doesn’t want instead he wanted to make him more strong and hard as life make all of us.

So now the moment came and she stand up to go and he is trying to convince her that he will be always there for her. And he is so grateful that he get her in life.

After going her, he was saying to other one is she was very good and honest girl, she was here to survival but even she was with me in my loosing and worst part.

So these are the tears for gratitude that now I’m feeling for her and so soon want to meet her again or do all the things made happen for her.

After seeing this all were falling for him and loving or respecting him as a wonderful person.

How marvellous is gratitude isn’t?

To experience deep gratitude, sit down and write a list of the things you are grateful for.

Keep writing and sharing your list until your eyes are overflowing with tears.

As the tears come, you will feel the most beautiful feeling around your heart and all through the inside of you.

This is the feeling of true gratitude.

Great attitude towards anything is “gratitude.”

The one you can imagine is present

The one you can imagine is present,

“creation is the hypothesis of realizing it, which has already existed.” – shrimadbhagavat (9th century)

You can imagine what you want – it already exists. It does not matter which and how big and difficult it is if you can imagine it, it is already present to be created in the field of creation.

This is not something that discovered or written yesterday.

but this mentioned in the oldest scriptures of five thousand years ago which had been forgotten somewhere along the way,

but as you know that truth is like the sunlight even if It seems to be hidden in the clouds for a while but after removing it, it seems to be visible. None can hide and change the universal truth.

That process of creation has been completed and whatever thing is possible, it has come into being.

Five thousand years later, of our teaching in srimadbhagavatam now science – Quantam Physics has also confirmed that at this time any other possibility is really in existence.

“The creation of the heavens and the earth and everything between them is completed”.

So first thing is, there is no meaning of impossible in this earth.

Whatever you and we all are thinking is possible. And second thing, we think that this is only mine so no! here all the of whole “this world”.

This is not the thought and philosophy that you given. This is not the thing that you invented and discovered. It all has been already. You get this, so touch it or that you can feel proud on yourselves.

Either can be say, creation always search for a medium through that something can pass like that you and we all are mediums for something in which we contribute.

Men and women should be treated equally Are you agree?

Men and women should be treated equally. Are you agree! unwo.men/xSKC30dnwdY

I don’t agree with this because there is a really good quote that has stuck with me through my years is,

“Equality can never be justice”.

We say this only because till now women not treated as gracefully even as Men.

Women don’t have as freedom, rights, and respect as men so we say this at least treat us equal to a men.

But no! why we are begging of equality instead asking respectfully for our rights.

Those rights are more than a men and any other creature of this planet. Women do more sacrifices, more duties, and till now get so less.

That is unfair and everyone are realising this or that is why constitution to all places everyone are helping to women in their growth and enhancement.

So we will have to accept that women and men both are created as two different things and parts that make complete with each other.

Why equally?

Women have their different Needs or men have different. Everyone should be treated wisely & respectfully.

All creatures can’t b equal but its not mean they are not important.

Give the all rights of women according to them not according and equal the men.

Equality is a type of new dictatorship and slavery.

We want freedom, freedom of being ourself, maintain our authanticity and uniqueness.

We don’t want to be like anyone else and anything of any other creature’s. We all have our own values, need, and desires treat us in that and right way.

Know your passions: they are the key to your physical and mental well-being

Having passions is an essential part of being human, and all people are passionate about something. If you feel like you don’t have any passions, it is probably because you haven’t discovered them yet.
When you’re doing something that you feel passionate about, you should know it intuitively because you kind of “lose yourself” in it.

This is why people often describe a change in their perception of time when they are doing something they are passionate about. Musicians often spend hours rehearsing or writing music without noticing the passing time. Ask yourself, what in your life makes you feel this way?
The positive mental feeling you get when you’re immersed in your passions affects your physical well-being too. The Harvard Study of Adult Development has studied extensively the connection between positive emotions and health. Experiencing positive emotions has been proven to reduce stress, reduce chronic pain and addictions, and improve sleep and concentration, among many other positive benefits.
Passions are an important and intrinsic part of every person, so you should create opportunities to allow yourself to discover them.

The more opportunities you give yourself to discover your passions, the happier and healthier you will become. Explore new physical and social environments, and research new fields you aren’t familiar with but are curious about; for example, by taking classes, joining relevant book groups or finding online communities. Look into new physical activities like sports or learn a craft that requires skilled use of your hands. The more unknown situations you explore, the more room you have to discover unknown passions.

Do not loan money if someone is following their passion. Yes it is a advice to bankers Because it is going to change and so much change.
Passion is a strong emotion of desire or enthusiasm felt for another person or for an activity.

You don’t follow your passion your passion follows you.
Passion is not something very destined and a thing for that you waiting for so long and finding it or looking for it.

Passion is just a feeling that can be for a job, for a person for a love for a place.

You can feel it for anything and differently on the different time but we get afraid and more then us our parents when our passion get changed on the bit difference of the time.

As it happens with all and with me also when I was so young I decided to be Dr. And started to think of it dreamt of it and also making efforts all in step by step 10th, 12th, B.Sc cpmt , Aipmt coachings. Instead, getting failed and succeed I was trying next to next but a level comes and suddenly I felt nothing for it no passion even if I get 1st rank , free admission or if someone gives me millions of rs. May be even though I didn’t study mbbs or became Dr. I just can’t think about it and felt for sometime a blankness, nothing was coming in my mind what to do after B.sc. I decided to not to study more and not to do anything.
But then my family convience me so much and i realised I love social work or helping people from childhood so studied MSW from distance learning and in these two years I lived a life of century.

Experienced lots of things did all that comes in my mind reading lots of books and traveling so much. Joined new social sites Twitter, LinkedIn then felt passion for astrology so i did it completely from learning, making notes and looking hand also of so many.

Then felt for writing so started to write for a news paper and then my blog and in other news papers.

And most important my poems I wrote almost 20 poems till now in hindi and English both. Started to feel passion for art so made few paintings and also learn so much like short hand, Corel draw, tally and also did job for a month there learnt much.

Experienced more spiritualism and deepness of meditation understand more truth about life and life-meaning.

Passion also awaken for forest and adventure so I read and watch lots of about it and imagine much but couldn’t do in real it’s not possible to do all the things of this world so for that there is a imagination it’s a very incredible thing that can make us infinite.

Now i want to help people to find their true self or for living their passion that only thing can make their journey of life complete or make them free from the cycle of surviving.

Then only they can see or feel beauty and essence of life and love.

So don’t get stuck or busy to find your passion just start doing a thing that you like or love that give you happiness or satisfaction it’s a passion.

And it’s your fire and efforts that helps others too in their duty.

Nidhi Singh

Speechless! This video of Nicholas winton awaken my heart

This is amazing and phenomenal world has still some great and God like persons. After watching this video of sir Nicholas winton push me up as a rocket loncher get completely fuled and awaken my heart from a too much dark.
Whenever i give up and get back in my shell of silence and dark mode. God or nature and May be universe shows me or give me a sign to wake up, rise again and do something worthy that i know i can do if i honestly willing to do.
That is way i love this line so much and always tell to others also. ” Whichever thing you wish with whole heart and soul, the whole universe takes it into union with you.”

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